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Posts Tagged ‘Daniel Hauser’

Choice or mirage?

Posted by newlawmom on May 26, 2009

Daniel Hauser and his mother have returned home, and the child is recieving appropriate medical treatment. The court allowed the parents to retain custody of the boy and it seems like a happy ending. With some luck, he will recover. But you are wrong. I hope Daniel gets physically better. I hope he never develops any other cancer as a result of the chemo itself. I hope that his family can support him as he deals with the incessant and horrible side effects of this treatment, and I hope the child doesn’t fight to hard and need not be restrained or have his rights violated to receive the treatment in the first place. I hope he and his parents have the strenght to deal with pure hell. However, I maintain that nobody should have the authority to dictate that this child be repeatedly injected with poisin that will almost kill him as it saves him from almost certain death.

Medicine is not God. People who practice it are not God. The opinions of one American educated doctor are not automatically better or more justified than the opinions of a doctor who was trained in a different country. We are not the only country where people get cancer, and we are not the only country that has found treatment for the disease. We are far, very far, from being the best, most perfect, most knowledgable, most moral, most Godlike people of the earth. And the sooner we learn that the better off we will be. While people are all set to force the Hauser’s to pursue a particular cure for their one child, Daniel, thousands upon thousands of other children are in the care of the government. Many hundreds, likely thousands of those children are in hospitals tonight. They are locked up, strapped in beds, and drugged. They are abused by other children, abused by adults, and ignored by 99.99% of the people who are all gung-ho about questioning the Hauser’s decisions. These kids are ignored. They are at risk. They do not get proper care. They do not get proper treatment. Half the states don’t even know where all of their children are. Children are left alone in hospital beds. They can be dead for months or years before anyone even reports them missing. So everyone who wants to get all philosophical about this one child might do a parentless child a favor by leaving the Hauser’s alone and finding a child who needs a parent. There are, after all, thousands of them available. And if you want one with serious health conditions to decide about, there are kids with all variety of those who don’t have a parent who cares to do anything at all.

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Blind faith in medicine

Posted by newlawmom on May 21, 2009

People should think long and hard about the mom who is on the run with her thirteen year old. One of my main contentions is that children are abused and tortured by the medical profession. I have witnessed it. Neither you nor I are in a position to judge the actions of this mother. People are allowed to refuse blood transfusions, for themselves and for their children.  Chemotherapy is poisin. It is a poisin that a majority of cancer specialists would refuse to use on their own bodies. And there is a reason for those statistics. For those people who choose to believe that medicine and doctors have the one and only cure for all that might ail a person, you are naive. Pharmaceutical companies drive health care in the USA. Money makes the choices. There is no “scientific” research on alternative medicine because the drug companies would not make any money if people took the natural or homeopathic route. Make no mistake that historically, doctors have killed and seriously injured many people by prescribing treatments that are later deemed to be dangerous. Any belief that medicine is good goes out the window when you get a glance at children tied to boards while they scream at the top of their lungs and “child life specialists” wave toys and bribe them with candy and toys and assure the parents that “they won’t remember”  the torture that the “all knowing” professionals deem necessary in the name of treatment. Whatever happened to “first do no harm”? Any doctor who would treat this child against his will and against the will of the parents would be committing a crime in my opinion. The very idea that the child is better off away from his parents is insane. All that allows is for a person who doesn’t know about the child and who has no vested interest in his life and well being (the whole life, not just the idea of it) to sign consents for torture. Once those consents are signed, all control is lost. The parents of this child love him. They have raised him for his entire life. There is no evidence they have ever harmed him in any way. They simply chose, after watching the results of one poisining, to not subject him to another. There are other treatments available. Maybe they will work, maybe they won’t. The fact that one alternative approach has failed means nothing. If the state would butt their nose out of it, the parents would most likely pursue alternate approaches. Maybe in the end they would even decide to try the chemo again. But those choices should not be made by doctors who are tied up in the hands of profit machines, and our judges should be competent enough to realize that the drug companies do not have the only viable and reasonable options for the treatment of illness and disease. Indeed, when done against the will of the patient, such treatment is criminal. I hope the mother and her son are able to remain safely outside the hands of those who seek to interfere. I pray to God that people in this country wake up soon and realize the dangers of  blind reliance.

I will pray for the forgiveness of any person who unwittingly participates in this disaster: the doctors,  police, the judge, and any foster parents or state workers who honestly believe they are doing what’s best for this child. But in the end, it is the biological parents and the child himself who are justified in their actions.

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